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“So much of her time spent like this: dreaming up things to say and never quite saying them.”
— Colum McCann, Let the Great World Spin (via amortizing)
connecting to another person means understanding that they are human and capable of mistakes. understand that they have a shadow that needs to be acknowledged, as well as a lifetime of conditioning and programming to recognize and release. don’t idealize your partners, allow them humanity.
